Nope. It's a sponge made for aquariums that has never been in contact with anything but the tank.Other than a mystery parameter, I'm at a loss.
The sponge that you use to clean your glass, has that ever been in contact with soaps?
The other thing I was just thinking about was that maybe because it was a new tank and hadn't seasoned caused issue. The nitrogen cycle was established due to used media but otherwise it was all new and since Apistos can be sensitive to that sort of thing combined with maybe the stress of the community was just too much for him.
I just really don't know what else it could have been. I suppose I don't know my GH, KH, or TDS. Maybe I'll bring in a sample to my LFS and get those tested just to have the answer.