

What do you mean by "dancing"?I’ve seen him dancing and occasionally foraging
After two years my a. wolli will have nothing to do with me - this was the case from day 1. They remain very shy and reclusive. @Mike Wise indicate this is not the case for him. I did have two f1s that are marginally more open but still very reclusive. On the bright side it looks like i might have a nice f1 male that can actually swim. I say might because i only got a glimpse of his tail but it seems to be starting to form a lyre tail.I have a theory, which is that I’m terrifying the male in particular. I don’t think there’s anything physically wrong, as I’ve seen him dancing and occasionally foraging, but he’s always hiding when I show up and doesn’t accept food from my tweezers anymore. Also I was watching him do the dance with the female and then the moment he saw me he ran back to this spot here.
Is there anything I should do to make him more comfortable with me?
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By dancing I mean the mating ritual. Just today the female was hanging around a pit and despite my best efforts to see I didn't find any fry nor eggs, which is curious. The male did pop out once to display to the female, but once he saw me he scampered away.It depends. Some fish are just always jumpy when there's movement in front of the tank, and in that case it helps not to have movement from above... Approach the tank lower and possibly when the tank is lit and the room isn't.
That said,
My guess is that the male is stressed out generally, possibly because he wants to breed with the female, and she's chasing him away (viciously) from the eggs. Try to make sure he's eating. Maybe it's dropping food in a place where he can see it and access the food away from your tweezers. If he doesn't perk up in a few days, you could consider separating him. Depends on his behavior, coloration, etc.
- You said he doesn't accept food from tweezers *anymore*, which implies that he used to not be so shy around you.
- The apistos I've had were always VERY interested in food when they see me approach the tank, unless it's a female guarding eggs, in which case they still want to come out, but more cautiously.
What do you mean by "dancing"?
I have dwarf water lettuce that’s doing alright, but i did cull them a weeks ago so there a bit less than normal right now. I’ll try to get my hands on some frogbit or hydrocotyle but right now it’s midterm season so I’m a tad preoccupied.Some fish just learn to hide. Do you have any floating plants that could shade at least part of the tank? The tank look rather bright to me.






Trust me. I have been trying my best while avoiding using chemicals. I added ramshorn snails last week and I’ve been removing as much as I can every other day to no avail.It's for sure a fish in his prime or just beyond it.
But besides... you should do something about the cyanobacteria.