You clearly lack experience and @MacZ is correct that your substrate is non-optimal. Most (all?) species of apistogramma are eartheater. What this means is that they like to shift through the substrate looking for food. This doesn't mean they poke at it - it means they will eat some of it and allow it to filter through their gills. Larger stones can damage the gills. Of course they will try to avoid doing this with larger stones but accidents do happen. This doesn't mean you can't keep them on the larger stones it just isn't optimal or perhaps a step further not ideal. I often wonder if locked jaw (a fatal condition these fishes can achieve) is partially related to the larger stones but that is pure speculation on my part as the jaws are tiny bones and issues can arise for other reasons.You appear to have been triggered by a close-up photo of aquarium substrate.If I need to relax and find a moment of tranquility I find looking at one of the many aquariums in my home extremely calming,it soothes my soul.