So whould panduros be more pickyIt really depends on the species. Some species, like A. nijsseni and A. iniridae, are much more choosy about breeding partners than more polygamous species, like A. cacatuoides or A. agassizii. I personally prefer getting juveniles and let them decide among themselves.
And hongsloiYes, they are a nijsseni-group species, but not quite as picky as A. nijsseni.